The Perfect Shade of Red

The good news is that you know that you and your partner still love each other. However, perhaps lately you find yourself wishing that your relationship and sex life was super hot and passionate just like it used to be back in the early stages. Maybe things have become a little dull and boring. Fortunately, there are all kinds of easy ways to spice up your sex life and put that spark back in your relationship again. 

Go on a Date as Strangers 

Of course you and your significant other are not actually strangers. However, pretending that you are can be a really fun way to spice things up. All you need to do is make plans ahead of time to meet at an agreed upon location for a date. You could perhaps meet up at a bar or restaurant, but really any place you both like is fun. You should both arrive separately and then greet each other and talk as if you are meeting each other for the very first time. Be sure to dress sexy so that you really wow them with how fantastic you look. At some point on the date, you may want to say something very flirtatious like "I'm not wearing any underwear." If you do that, you will be assured that you or your partner will be sure to ask for the check faster then you even thought possible and it will definitely make for a night of great sex. 

Try a Strapless Dildo or Other Toys

A Strapless dildo and other toys can really work wonders to spice things up in the bedroom. They can really give you both a great deal of pleasure and can help take sex to a whole new level. Also, shopping for these items either online or at a local store is something that you can both have a lot of fun doing together. 

Check out a Kama Sutra Book 

Have you or your partner been a little bored with your sex life lately? If so, then you should definitely check out a Kama Sutra book. There is no need to be bored from doing the same few positions all the time when there are just tons of other positions that you can also do. Trying out a wide variety of new positions together is definitely an excellent way to improve your sex life. You can also check out YouTube or other websites for more helpful information about Kama Sutra. The Kama Sutra is typically considered to be the most well known book about sex positions. However, there are are also many other similar books out there that you might want to take a look at. A quick search on Amazon.com or another website you like to shop on for sex position books should yield tons of results. 

It can for sure feel a little sad and frustrating if sex with your partner is no longer hot and exciting like it used to be. It can really take a toll on your relationship if one or both of you is not feeling satisfied with your sex life. Luckily, trying even just one of these tips is sure to help make sex really pleasurable and enjoyable for both of you.